Category: Dating and Relationships
Ask The Bee: A Virus in Vera Wang
Dear Bee, As cliché as it may sound, I was always the girl who dreamt of her wedding…the big white Vera Wang gown, the overabundance of flowers, the signing of the Ketubah, you name it, I have thought it out in perfect detail. Fast forward 31 years. I met my forever in the most unexpected…
Ask The Bee: Love or Loyalty?
Hi Jule, I hope this note finds you well! I’m reaching out as I’d love your perspective on my current dating situation. A few months ago, I was fixed up with a guy through a mutual acquaintance of ours. Before our first date, we spoke on the phone for over an hour so I was…
Ask The Bee: R Babies For Us?
Dear Bee, I am almost 31 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for five years, four of which have been long distance (he is in Canada and I am in New York, a five-hour flight away). I recently started my absolute dream job in New York, he has been…
Ask The Bee: Crush or Crutch?
Dear Bee, I’ve been with my significant other for 10 years (I’m 30 years old). We’re engaged to be married, he is one of my best friends. That said, it feels like something is missing, but I am not sure what. When I met him 10 years ago, I wasn’t in a good place in…
Ask The Bee: BEEsic Instinct
Hi Jule! Here we go – I’m happily married to the most wonderful man. He’s my best friend. We are so happy and have everything we could ever want or need in our lives, so these issues don’t stem from an issue in our own five year marriage. Here’s the thorn – my husband and…
Ask The Bee: To Sleep With Him or Not To Sleep With Him…That is the Question
Hi Jule, I recently had a guy become distant on me. We had only been dating for a short period of time. Full disclosure: we never had the “exclusive” talk so I continued to see other people. Shortly after we began dating I took off on an amazing trip to Italy. During my time on…
Happily Ever After…A Covid Fairytale?
Dear Bee, Thank you for being a true light during these difficult Covid-19 times. I get so much joy living vicariously through your beautiful kitchen, delicious meals and your precious family. I’m only a teeny bit mad that you’re not sending me the leftovers. 😉 I’d love you to weigh in on something that I’m…
Ask The Bee: COVID Operation
Dear Bee, LOVING your content. Thank you for keeping us entertained during this crazy time. The new website is amazing! I’m hoping you’ll pick this letter as the first “Ask the Bee” for the new site! I’m 28 years old and I was fixed up with a guy about a month ago by a mutual friend of…
Ask The Bee: Mystified by Men
Hi Bee, Last Friday night I went on a date with someone new who I met on “Bumble.” I’m 54 years old and he is 58. He has two children and is legally separated, but not yet divorced from wife number two. Maybe that should have been my first red flag? We had a really…
Ask The Bee: Squeezed in The OC
Dear Bee, Wow! I just found you through The Skinny Confidential and fell instantly in love with your sage advice served with a side of sass. Please help me fix my life!! 🙂 I’m about to turn 30 and while I have spent my 20s traveling a ton, living abroad in big cities there and…